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ice cubesRecently a new "cure" for premature ejaculation has been making some headlines. Basically it's a topical anesthetic spray that when applied to the penis will cause a numbing effect. The general concept behind this idea is that if there is less sensation in the penis, ejaculating too quickly is less likely to happen. But is effectively putting your penis "on ice" the way to go?

Being somewhat obsessed with male enhancement and all things Penis (or a "Dick-Head" as my girlfriend affectionately refers to me), when I saw a link to an article entitled "Topical Spray May Treat Premature Ejaculation", I just had to check it out. The information truly wasn't earth-shattering. This kind of treatment has in fact been around for quite some time, most notably with some types of condoms that are supposed to delay ejaculation.

While I personally have never used any type of numbing process to prolong coitus, I did remember a somewhat humorous story told to me by a woman I used to work with. She told me that both her and her husband had been a bit upset over the fact that most of their sexual relations seemed to be over just about as quickly as they began. This is not surprising since it's been reported that the rate of premature ejaculation in American males is estimated to range from 30-70%.

While shopping one day the husband came across some condoms that were supposed to help you last longer during sex so he immediately bought a few dozen. After he arrived home, he told his wife what he had done and they decided to give it a shot. So the husband puts on the condom, proceeds to have sex with his wife and after about 30 seconds he ejaculates. He's quite upset since he was expecting to be a "manly man" and give his wife the pounding of her life.

Well about 15 minutes goes by and he starts to feel a little funny... his penis has lost sensation! He begins to panic a bit (who wouldn't?!) until his caring and thoughtful wife decides to actually read the small print on the condom box. Thats when they discover that the condoms are supposed to numb the penis and that they should be worn approximately 15 minutes prior to intercourse in order for the process to take effect.

Ok, maybe I should have felt more sympathetic for this guy but I have to tell you that when she told me that story I almost broke a nut. I could imagine this poor fellow, sitting there after yet another "sex sprint" with a useless penis hanging between his legs. His wife really didn't help my disposition either since she was almost in tears from laughing while she told me about that episode.

I just don't understand how this concept is a viable option for men suffering from premature ejaculation. Firstly, there's the waiting period before it actually takes effect. I say that when the time is right, there's no room for stalling. But ok, maybe you spend a little time with foreplay and wait until your penis is dead... errr "numb." Now what? The best thing about sex is the pleasure you feel while doing it! If you can't feel a damn thing then what good is that? Maybe the wifey is having the time of her life but sex is a two way street - if both partners aren't experiencing pleasure I just can't understand the point.

Another thing that bothers me is the actual process itself. Like most guys I love my penis. I take care of it, I groom it, I talk to it (they say it helps make it grow) and I certainly don't want to apply some "anesthetic" that is going to give it rigamortis! Not to mention the possible effects it might have on the inner workings of a woman's vagina. I don't think most women would like their girlie-parts on ice either.

Yes, premature ejaculation is a common problem that some reports say effects every 1 out of 2 men at least once in their lifetime. And while the controversy rages over whether the cause is mostly psychological, physical, or both, I say that men need to get more in touch with their "inner penis."

Maybe it's because I'm overly obsessed with my own genitalia, or that I exercise my penis more than most health nuts exercise their biceps in the gym, but I can honestly say that I do not suffer from this problem. Heck, I usually even have to concentrate in order to just ejaculate (after about an hour, even the most stalwart of sexual partners usually want a break).

Another factor I believe influences this condition is that men are self-absorbed. It's all "me, me, me" when it really should be about "us." Most men get so excited about the prospect of sex that they're like kids on Christmas eve. Well if you get too excited then Santa just might be showing up earlier than you expected with a sack full of something other than toys.

Numbing your penis is not the way to go. Try to remember that sex is supposed to be a wonderful experience between two people (maybe more, depending on your tastes) and that pleasure is not just what you feel, but what you give. If you want to put something on ice, start with the other head first!

PRS Posted by PRS
Thursday, February 8th, 2007


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