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smiley tongueFor many people, oral sex is just as important and pleasurable as intercourse. I know it is for me. I can't really say whether women prefer cunnilingus more than actual penetration but I would wager that many, maybe more than half, probably do. A sad fact is that many women can't achieve an orgasm with normal sex. Sometimes, however these women can reach orgasm with a little skilled oral manipulation. Yeah I know, you already know how to lick down there right? Well trust me, after you are finished reading this you will have learned a few new things that just might help you please your woman a little better.

So you really like it when she goes down on you huh? Then you better go down on her! I know a few guys that say they won't lick their lover's luscious spot because they think its gross. Well guess what? I'm sure your woman doesn't think it's the greatest thing in the world to have her face down by your sweaty balls either.

Well let's get to it... here's a list of some things that you can do to make oral sex more enjoyable for both yourself and your partner.

Oral Sex Do's

"The Tease"

Don't rush it and go straight for the treasure, explore her body a little first. Lick her thighs. Kiss her belly button and tummy and drag your tongue down to her vagina. Let your tongue brush against her labia, but don't stick it in. Give her a chance to get good and wet before you do.

"Make It Fun"

Women love to see their men having fun while they lick them. They want to see that you are enjoying it as much as they are. Just don't go cracking any jokes. She'll yank your head back down to her crotch using your ears as handles!

"Take Your Time"

Make sure you're in a comfortable position because you should spend a good amount of time down there. I don't know, pretend you're a miner looking for gold or something. Don't spend like 30 seconds down there and say you are done. Take the time to enjoy her taste and her smell. All women are different so get to know every single part of her vagina. Become the expert of HER.

"Work The Clitoris"

Spend time licking and sucking the clitoris and her hood. Start out very slow at first and then gradually build up your speed. Most women find it easier to have an orgasm when her clitoris is stimulated.

"Massage Her Outer Lips"

While you are sucking and licking her clitoris, massage her lips. Pull them away and bring them close together. This will drive her totally insane.

"Use Your Fingers"

Use your fingers to penetrate her while you are licking her clitoris. She will love this. Chances are before long you will feel her tremble with pure delight. You can also use your fingers rub her clitoris while you are eating her out.

"Make Her Comfortable"

Put a pillow under her butt. This will give you more room for your dining pleasure. You will also be able to focus more on how to please her if you have more access to her.

"Massage Her Nipples"

Most women love it when their nipples are rubbed during sexual acts. I've had several that just about demanded it. Some have even told me that when I touch their nipples it made their clitoris tingle.

"Mix It Up"

Stop midway through intercourse to lick her. This will catch her by surprise. Get her all worked up by giving her a good pounding and then just when she least expects it, jump down and start licking her. She will go crazy when you do this.

"The Mint Trick"

Eat her while you have mints in your mouth. This will send her wild. Put a mint or an Altoid in your mouth and go down there. After you are done, share it and have her go down on you while she has it in her mouth.

"Pay Attention"

Oral sex is different for each person... she is unique, so be aware of how she reacts to what you are doing. Her pleasure can often be expressed without words, and if you take the time to get to know her well, you will be able to see what works and what doesn't. The goal is not only for her to have an orgasm, but to keep her thinking about the experience for days and days after... she will be dying to get you back in bed (or wherever) soon!!

Okay, now here are a few things that women hate and you should avoid.

Oral Sex Don'ts

"Don't Force It"

Don't insist on performing oral sex. You can tell right away if she wants you down there or not. Maybe she isn't feeling so fresh or is on her period. Take the hint and let it go my friend.

"Don't Forget To Groom Yourself"

Make sure to keep your nails trim. You don't want to damage her because your nails are too long.

"Don't Limit Yourself"

There are no limits to where you can and can't lick so go crazy.

"Don't Barter"

Don't tell her that since you went down on her, she should go down on you. It doesn't work like that.

"Don't Be An IDIOT"

Ok, most women think guys are generally idiots but here's one thing you should not do. Don't tell her what your ex liked. She isn't your ex, so don't compare them.

Well there you are... follow these tips and you will be terrific when it comes to oral sex. If you're looking for a few more pointers to spice up your sex life then I highly recommend you check out LoveCentria. The LoveCentria program is probably the best online resource for advanced sexual advice for men. Go check it out today!

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Posted by PRS
Tuesday, January 9th, 2007


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9 Responses to "Pleasing Your Woman with Oral Sex"

my husband wants oral sex all the time and im getting tired and bored from it. when we start to have fun he pushes my head down and that kills the moment. i tried telling him i dont like to do it all the time but he doest care about my feeling on this. plus im 26 weeks pregnant and its kind of hard to do especially when my legs and feet start swelling. how can i make him understand without hurting him?

It sounds to me like oral sex has always been an issue in your relationship. The fact that you are pregnant now has only magnified the problem. In any sexual relationship, if it becomes a one way street, it can become boring and can lose it's appeal. The beauty of the sexual act is in pleasing each other and showing love, not just "getting off." In your case, I would recommend having an open discussion about your concerns with your husband because he may have no idea how much this is bothering you. If nothing changes, marriage counseling would be an excellent avenue where you both could express yourselves in a neutral environment. I wish you all the best ....

I always give my wife 69, but my wife never give me an oral sex. How can I persuade to give me oral job?

Hi Jin,

You need to be open and upfront with your partner. Ask her if there's any reason why she doesn't like to perform oral sex on you. Make sure she knows how much it would please you if she did that. The key to a successful sex life is honest communication.

Hi Shelley
I been through the same thing, if anything he should be giving you more oral than anything because you're pregnant but if that don't work just tell him either you start giving me oral or you wont receive any more oral until the baby is born trust me he'll come around quick.

my girlfriend stopped giving oral to me since she learned that it may cause oral cancer. Is this true

Hi Jiqbal,

There have been reports linking oral sex to throat cancer. This is because oral sex may transmit HPV (human papillomavirus). Fortunately the risk is relatively small - only around 1 in 10,000 people develop oral tumors each year and smoking and drinking are much more likely causes.

If your partner is concerned then you may both want to be tested for HPV. You can talk to your doctor about getting screened. Wearing a condom is also a good idea since they help protect against most sexually transmitted infections, including HPV.

I have never had an orgasm during regular sex, So after he has an orgasm sometimes my husband has to finger me, while i stimulate my clit, I always have to ask though, and I'm tired of asking, he also does not like giving me oral sex, but he asks me to do it to him, I have already talked to him about this..What else can i do!?

Hi KLM,

The unfortunate truth is that after most men ejaculate, sexual desire pretty much goes out the window! If you allow your husband to reach orgasm before you do then he really doesn't have much incentive to continue. You need to make sure that he understands that you have needs as well and that he's not meeting them. Sex is a two-way street - if both partners aren't attentive to each others needs then there's bound to be problems.

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