Full Disclosure

NPE training, regardless of the particular method used, requires a certain amount of dedication. Whether taking enhancement supplements, practicing penis exercises or using an extender traction device (or any combination of these systems), there will always be a time committment involved that affects your normal everyday life. That being said, the relatively small effort necessary to improve penis size is not something that should be, or really even can be, hidden from your significant other.

First of all, keeping secrets from your partner is never a good idea, assuming that's even possible. To achieve a successful committed relationship requires honesty. Let your partner know what you're doing and why. Keep in mind that the results of your training will not only affect yourself but will also have an impact on your partner as well.

Furthermore, any manner of deceit will usually be easily detected. If you think you can hide something and not get caught, think again. Women in particular are extremely adept at sensing deception. Why bring tension into your relationship when it's easily avoidable? There is after all nothing wrong with wanting to increase the size of your penis.

Lastly, keeping your training a secret is next to impossible once you start to see actual results. How can you explain the fact that your penis has grown significantly larger without admitting to have kept secrets? Getting a bigger penis will not improve your relationship when it comes at the expense of losing trust.

Maintaining A Balance

While we've discussed the reasons why disclosing NPE is important to maintaining a healthy relationship, there are certain boundaries that must be left intact. In this respect we come full-circle to the original principal that penis enlargement is ultimately a private undertaking.

For instance, explaining to your partner that you spend some time each day exercising your penis should not be interpreted as an invitation for involvement. The techniques involved require a certain amount of concentration and distractions should be avoided at all costs.

A certain amount of curiosity is of course understandable. If they're interested in seeing the particulars of your training, then by all means feel free to demonstrate. Just be sure to reinforce that privacy is essential for effectiveness.

Remember, the reason for this has nothing to do with being shy or self-conscious, although these are legitimate concerns. Rather, methods such as exercises or traction devices require that the penis remain in a flaccid (non-erect) state. With this in mind it's easy to see how outside influences can easily detract from your training.

If your partner wishes to contribute, a much more suitable involvement might take the form of something more innocuous such as penis measuring. As it's advisable to track your gains with monthly measurements, this activity creates an excellent opportunity to keep your partner engaged in your training as well as further strengthen your relationship.

For the majority of men, the practice of NPE comes down to a balance between privacy and openness. The methodologies that are employed to actually increase penis size are in some respects the easy part. If you follow the instructions of a legitimate penis enlargement system you will definitely see results. As most of us do not live in a bubble however, certain considerations must be addressed. With just a little forethought you can both lengthen and thicken your penis while at the same time strengthen the romantic bond you share with your partner.

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It's not difficult for most men to understand why they should not ejaculate when performing an enlargement routine. While some exercises are performed when the penis is flaccid, the majority require an erect or semi-erect state to be effective. If you reach orgasm during a routine your penis will (usually) go limp and affect your ability to continue.

For many programs there is also a "3 hour window" where it is recommended that you abstain from ejaculation. While this suggested time period varies from one program to the next, the majority (if not all) agree that ejaculating prior to, and following a workout, must be avoided.

The main reason for this rule is to prevent the penile tissues from becoming exhausted. If you ejaculate too soon before a session, the penis will not be energetic enough to perform many of the strenuous routines. This will hinder the effectiveness of advanced techniques, such as girth-work, which require a consistently high level of erection.

Abstaining from ejaculation after a penis workout is also important for proper healing and recovery. Following the "warm-down" at the end of a routine, the penis is often highly engorged with blood and extremely sensitive. The blood flowing within the penis nourishes the tissues and allows the healing and repairing process to continue. Ejaculating too soon afterward will prematurely stop the increased blood flow and rapidly dissipate the stored energy. In essence, recovery will take place in a less than desirable state.

That being said, I do not subscribe to a philosophy that sacrifices personal happiness for the sake of maximizing gains. If you are in a sexual relationship you have an obligation to your partner and abstaining from sex for extended periods of time may not be possible. A shorter time frame, such as 30-60 minutes before and after your workouts, is much more feasible for most.

Ultimately the reason for practicing natural penis enlargement is to improve the overall sexual experience for both partners. Denying yourself the pleasure that comes from great sex is not, in my opinion, a fair trade for somewhat faster penis growth.

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