1. The Best Way To Get A Woman's Attention

Across a crowded room, you spot someone who caught your eye who you would like to get to know better. Instead of approaching her with some cheesy pick-up line (are you a pirate? cos I want your booty!), why not concentrate on the impression you are going to make when you approach her. Women love men who ooze self confidence, so your best bet is to concentrate on your body language.

Women are sexually attracted to the "alpha male" type, a man who is relaxed and sure of himself without giving off a smug attitude. Take control of the conversation, mixing humor with intelligence, but show interest in what she has to say as well. This is a tremendous turn on for women and if she is interested, she will be anxious to engage in conversation with you.

2. The Best Way To Seduce A Woman

If you have followed my advice and you have your lady's attention, you are now ready to play the seduction game. If you are at a party or a club, you may want to move your personal party someplace a little more intimate. Don't rush the "let's go to my place" step, this may scare her off. Instead, choose a cozy restaurant or lounge where you can continue getting to know one another over a few drinks.

Make sure you look into her eyes, maintaining the right amount of eye contact without coming off as 'creepy.' Romantic eye contact will certainly send sexual chills down her spine and leave her wanting more. Some gentle touching to show her you are interested will take you a long way. Always remember you are in the drivers seat, but don't be too pushy. If she is interested, she will respond and follow your lead.

3. Getting Close Enough To Initiate Sex

I have said it before and I'll say it again, communication is the lifeline of a lasting relationship or a casual sexual encounter. If you have reached this point after you have successfully made it through points 1 and 2, chances are good that you will end up in bed before the night is over. Sexual communication is important so that you are both on the same page. If you are not into the same things that could be a serious deal breaker.

Of course it's important to be aware of your partners "kinky level" and that may take a little time to learn. Does she like to swallow? Does she enjoy anal sex? These kind of discussions depend on how many times you have seen each other, so don't rush it. As you draw closer you can always amp up your pillow talk and take things to a new level by trying new sexual positions.

4. The Worst Moves A Man Can Make In Bed

Slow down, seriously. Women need some warming up and don't appreciate you diving in as soon as your clothes are off. Don't expect her to just drop and spread em' for you to do your thing. You have gone this far by being observant and in touch with her needs, please don't stop now.

Take care when orally pleasing her, be alert to what feels good for her yet don't overdue it. Give her some control when it comes to oral sex -don't ram her head down on your dick even though it feels good to you, it's a major buzz kill for women.

Communicate with one another about when you are going to cum. If you cum too quickly, you will leave her frustrated. If you take too long, she will be too sore to move. And most importantly – when you are both satisfied, take some time to snuggle each other. This is important for women who need a little more time to come back to earth after they have had an orgasm.

5. Are You Big Enough To Satisfy Her?

This has to be one of the biggest concerns of men but it's the easiest to answer. In all honesty, when you reach that point where you whip out your penis, you will be able to tell right away whether she's excited or not. Her eyes will get big and she'll basically be drooling over it, begging you to come inside her.

The moment of truth for you will be once you penetrate her and hear her moan with pleasure. Think of it this way, up until she met you she has probably been pleasuring herself with a variety of toys and vibrators. Most of these devices are fairly large so you'll be going up against some pretty stiff competition.

What's to your advantage is that there's no substitute for the real thing. It helps to have a sizable package down there but it doesn't necessarily spell failure if you don't. You should be able to gauge whether her response is positive or negative pretty quickly.

If she's receptive to your moves and obviously enjoying herself, you can rest assured that many more sexual encounters are to follow. If on the other hand she doesn't seem too excited, all hope is not lost. There are other ways to pleasure a woman that don't depend on the size of your penis, it just takes more focus and experimentation.

You could also look into some natural ways to enlarge your penis and make the most out of your sexual experiences. I've known many men who had great results using a penis enlargement device. It's not for everyone but if you want to add a few inches of size down there it's a great way to do it!

These 5 simple secrets are a good starting point for men interested in enhancing their sexual encounters. They represent only just a small fraction of the concerns men have about women, sex and relationships but I do feel the information is incredibly valuable. As always I welcome your questions and feedback, so please feel free to drop me a line!

-LoveRat

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Foreplay is not only an excellent way to enhance your sexual experience, but it will also help you to gain new understanding of your lover, drawing you closer as a couple. Since we all know the basics of foreplay, I thought that I would explore some more erotic ideas for you to experiment with.

Be a Tease!

Explore her body but do not go near her vagina for at least 5 to 10 minutes. Anticipation is a powerful turn-on, and the object here is to drive her insane with passion! Work your way around her body – her breasts, her ears, her butt, kissing her passionately and teasing her with your tongue. Use the tip of your penis to touch her body, let her feel how bad you want her, but resist the urge to plunge inside of her until she begs you to.

The Magical Mystery Tour

The key here is to be UNPREDICTABLE. While we are usually eager to just rip our clothes off and get down to business, take your time peeling off all your clothes. Start with removing her socks – most women are extremely turned on by "shrimping" or toe sucking. Try a little nibbling and licking while massaging her foot gently.

If the thought of munching on her adorable, yet perhaps just a tad bit funky feet is not for you, try making it fun. Rub her feet with edible massage oils and lick that off. Or put some whipped cream on the tip of each toe and treat her like she is a delectable dessert. Trust me, it will drive her absolutely wild!

Try an oral sex alternative as you strip her down to her panties – go down on her while they are still on, moving them with your tongue for access and then eat away! Pull them off with your teeth when you have finished, and if you can stand it, go back to "the tease" and play a little bit more before you engage in love making.

Talk Dirty To Me

As I have mentioned in my earlier blog posts, the art of communication is important in the sexual act, and dirty talk certainly has it's place. You don't need a play by play, but an occasional "I can't wait to be inside you" or "cum for me baby" is extremely erotic. Feel free to use obscenities at this point also, express yourself and show your lover that you are comfortable and enjoying the experience.

Show and Tell

This is one of the most intimate acts of foreplay a couple can engage in. You let your partner into a very private place, not only stimulating each other, but drawing close as a sexual unit.

For women, use visual stimulation. Wear some sexy lingerie and give him a lap dance, then strip off your clothes and let him watch you masturbate. Take his finger and let him help you along, then suck his finger gently, tasting the erotic flavors he has brought out of you. Or he can just be a voyeur – look but don't touch is a very effective way to show your partner how to arouse you.

For men, show her a demonstration of how you like to masturbate, talk out loud, tell her what you are thinking about as you pleasure yourself. Take her hand and let her help you, and if this gets too intense where you feel you are going to cum, ask her where she would like you to cum – in her mouth, between her breasts, on her stomach, or you can just thrust your penis inside of her and explode.

Blindfolding

Sometimes the best way to heighten your senses is to render one useless. A blindfold can add a degree of intimacy and trust in your partner that other things cannot. Take turns experimenting with another form of sexual mystery that will open many doors of pleasure for both of you. With this technique you can implement different textures and surprise each other with new sensations. Use feathers – stroke your lover all over, behind the ears, over the chest/breast area, down the stomach then the inner thighs.

Use flavored oils and lotions to massage interesting places, exploring the body and finding new locations that bring your partner pleasure. Always be in tune to their breathing patterns and moans so you know that your lover is enjoying this type of play.

For men, try to use a warming lubricant as you rub your woman's clit then penetrate her so you can feel the benefit also. For woman, suck on an Altoid or two to cool your tongue, then lick your man's erect penis, being very careful how you use your minty tongue around the very sensitive head. Combining these techniques can be a sexual mind-blower!

Experimenting with one or more of these foreplay techniques is a great way to enhance your sex life. For you men that are looking for even more advanced instruction and information, I highly recommend you check out Sex Advice For Men. This site contains articles on everything from kissing and massage to finding erogenous zones and advanced oral sex practices. SAFM is a must visit site for all men looking to make sex more enjoyable and learn how to become better lovers!

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