Does Penis Size Really Matter
Does penis size matter? Some say yes, some say no. It is a matter of ongoing controversy. Men and women argue this point, and magazines have frequent articles on the subject.
This is probably the most commonly asked question of all time since the dawn of sex. The size of a man's penis is a huge concern for men, and women, alike. Most men obsess about whether having a big penis will make them more manly and better lovers.
In all honesty this fear usually eminates from a male's vanity rather than any concern he may feel about the pleasure a woman will receive. It's really about the embarrassment a man imagines when being exposed as a guy with a small penis.
These feelings, if left unchecked, may lead to a perception of low self-worth. He may feel impotent and less a man than others.
Penis And Size
Most research finds that the average range of penis size falls between 5.5 to 6.4 inches in erect length and 4.7 to 5.2 inches in girth. But who wants to be average? Most men would love an extra inch or two!
When it comes to penises, many cultures - both ancient and modern - have considered bigger to be better. Unsurprisingly, this obsession about penis sizes has set off a dynamic and lucrative industry solely devoted to penis enlargement.
Sometimes size simply does matter, however. Gina from Los Angeles has this to say:
"I have been dating a man who I think is wonderful. We have so much in common, and everything is great. The problem is that when we have intercourse, I can't feel his penis inside of me. There is also no contact with my clitoris. It doesn't matter how long he goes, I can't feel him inside.
With other partners, I can reach orgasm within a couple of minutes, but he is so small, I just can't. I feel embarrassed going on about specifics, but his penis is about 4 1/2 inches long and very thin. I try to tell myself that it doesn't matter, but the fact is that I deserve to have pleasurable sex and real orgasms.
Not only can I not come, but I am worried that he can't feel much either, which makes me feel like less of a woman with him. I don't know what other women do in this situation, but I'm confused and upset. This guy and I get along so well, and everything is so great, but the sex is so unsatisfying. What can I do?"
Dealing With The Penis Size Issue
There are a few things they can try, but unfortunately first she has to be able to tell him what the problem is - and that is bound to be uncomfortable and to put a strain on their relationship. Can you imagine how difficult it is for a woman to tell a man she cares about that she's upset she can't feel his penis during love-making?
After they have addressed the problem then they can talk about solutions so that Gina receives the sexual stimulation she needs to enjoy their physical relationship. There are penis extentions available at most sex toy shops, or they can be bought online. There are also small vibrators designed to stimulate the clitoris during intercourse or at other times. Her boyfriend can use a vibrator and masturbate or perform oral sex on her before or after intercourse.
Methods To Increase Penis Size
First off, there is surgery, but that is expensive and intrusive. Most men would not willingly undergo surgery, nor should a woman ask it. Then there are mechanical enlargement techniques such as penis pumps and stretching rings. These can have some effect, but can also weaken and tear the delicate tissue of the penis. Some doubt that these pumps can be effective, and there are differing opinions as to whether such mechanical techniques work.
There are also exercises like the jelq and some special kinds of stretching. These exercises can be very effective but they require both knowledge and regular effort. Penis Health and SizeGenetics™ clearly demonstrate the correct techniques.
Lastly there are penis pills, which can have a great effect and can increase the size of the penis. It all depends on what penis pills you choose as many are simply ineffective. I recommend ProSolution™ penis enlargement pills or the innovative trans-dermal penis patch from PROenhance™.
Obviously in some situations, size can make a difference. Not only in terms of the quality of sex, but also as far as the comfort involved in the relationship.
Penis Size Documentary
Just how important is penis size? Watch this interesting documentary which attempts to shed some light on the age-old question, "Does Penis Size Matter?"