I am having difficulty ejaculating when I have sex with my
partner. I am attracted to her, I do receive an erection, I
just cannot ejaculate with intercourse. If I masturbate I
can ejaculate within minutes of an erection. Do I masturbate
too often?
Sunday, September 21, 2008 7:42 PM
Excessive masturbation can sometimes be a factor. Your body
continually produces sperm but there is a limit to the
amount you can naturally produce. It really depends on how
frequently you masturbate. I definitely wouldn't recommend
doing it near the time of intercourse if you plan on
ejaculating during sex. Semen volumizers (natural
supplements that increase semen production) can help to
increase your overall output but the effects wouldn't be
noticeable for several months. VolumePills is one such
product:
http://www.penis-resources.com/increase_semen_volume.html
Aside from physiological reasons, there is also a possible
psychological aspect to it as well. When you masturbate you
are totally focused on yourself. You usually fantasize about
something that really turns you on. It's obviously much
easier to reach a climax in this way. You can actually use
this same technique during intercourse when you are ready to
ejaculate. Simply think about what you normally do when
masturbating. You may even pretend that her vagina is your
hand and truly feel that you are pleasuring yourself. Give
it a shot!
To be honest, most men suffer from not being able to control
ejaculation. Obviously you have more control than most. But
I understand your problem. I think if you relax a little and
concentrate more on pleasuring yourself during intercourse,
you should be just fine.
