if you dont ejaculate for like a month lets say is that
good or bad. and if you ejaculate when you're sleep is
that good or bad.
Thursday, March 06, 2008 1:54 PM
An ejaculation that occurs while you're asleep is known
as a nocturnal emission. This is natural and often
happens to men who are going through puberty. When you
are young and your body starts producing sperm, there
is usually no way to relieve that buildup so the body
begins releasing it while you're sleeping. When we grow
older and start to have sexual experiences (usually
masturbation at first), we manually relieve this
pressure and so no longer experience these night-time
episodes.
It can also happen to older men if they are not
ejaculating often - for instance someone who goes for
months without release. Again it's perfectly natural.
You need to remember that your body is continually
producing new sperm so at times it needs to release
that fluid.
Abstaining from any sort of sexual activity is a
personal choice. Ultimately there is no 'good' or 'bad'
decision. Some feel that the body needs to release
semen and sperm regularly in order to keep all the
organs functioning properly. Others, like the ancient
Chinese Taoists, felt that sperm contained the life
essence of man and by refraining from ejaculation for
periods of time this energy could be stored and
increased. These monks however were not living normal
everyday lives like most of us do today - they were
hoping to reach enlightenment and to enhance their
physical bodies beyond that of average men.
If you abstain from sexual activity for a long period
of time, you will certainly notice an increased amount
of fluids when you eventually do ejaculate. Many men
choose to do this in order to increase the pleasure
felt during release.
In the end there really is no scientific data to
suggest whether withholding from sexual activity
provides a benefit or not. Again, it's a personal
decision that one must make himself. It's your own body
so only you can decide what you want to do with it.
Don't be afraid to experiment!
